Thursday, January 23, 2014

5 a.m.! Are you Crazy?

If you know me personally or follow me on Facebook you know that I've become very regimented in the last 3+ months when it comes to going to the gym. Yes, I'm at the gym weekdays at 5 a.m.
You see I've gone through several workout cycles in the last 6 years. During that time, I've had gym memberships and utilized two excellent personal trainers! Sadly, I'm a bit of an extremist when it comes to meeting goals. Working out and a strict diet is an area where this extremist cycle once again reared its ugly head. When I wasn't able to attain a happy medium of working out, eating healthy and just living, I gave up thinking I couldn't make it work. 
It was just before my birthday last September that God blessed me with the inspiration of a good friend, who has become more of a sister in these last 5 months. Her name is Jen. She attends my church, is a mother of 4 young children (2 of which she is homeschooling), an amazing wife, tends to her parents and is a child of God! This is only a mere snippet of who she is, I could go on and on. Jen started on a weight loss journey last year first tackling the area of food and then exercise. Each week at church, I saw her shrinking in physical size but growing in, what I would say, peace and contentment. 
For many years, I've always wanted someone to work out with. Last August, just before my 46th birthday, Jen had started walking and working out in a local park with a group of people from our church. I can't tell you if I asked her or she offered for me to come along but needless to say on my birthday I  found myself walking my town's track early Sunday morning with one of the people from the workout group and planning to meet Jen and the other's the following day. This began our journey.
Now, in the summer the sun is up nice and early and due to work schedules a 5 a.m. workout session was the plan. Up until mid-October Jen and I were walking the park. As for the gym, I joined it first knowing that I didn't want to stop the workout I had become accustom to the last month. I remember the morning I told Jen I had joined the gym. I was afraid our time together was going to be over but no, the next day Jen told me she had gone ahead and joined the gym. We did have a few more walks in the park but as the temps changed we took our work out into Blink Fitness!
I can't tell how it happened but slowly we assembled a group of ladies joining us in our early workout regiment. These ladies are Angie, Jen, Kim, Adina, and just recently we've added Serina, Jenny and her mother Jen. Yes, that makes four Jennifer's but they are all unique and beautiful individuals. 
As we have been working out together these last few months, our personal relationships with each other have been growing. Our greatest common bond being our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We are daughter's of the King and sister's in Christ. We try to encourage and motivate each other to press on. 
Its funny though because our little group of "Blinkers" were becoming known. Okay, so I post every morning that I am at the gym. Why? To encourage others to work out too. But those post seemed to be creating conversations everywhere I was going. These conversations made me start thinking about our group and its purpose. I knew what we were about and how we were encouraging and helping each other beyond just the physical aspect of working out but as Christian's were we showing what our true purpose is?  Yes, we were growing together but in my heart I was feeling that God desired us to be MORE. 
This pricking from God to be MORE was solidified when our group was brought up in a devotional time on New Year's Eve. It was in a good way. We are at the gym at 5 a.m. and not every day are we jumping up with joy to get out of bed at that time to workout even though we know it is to our benefit. As Paul talks about "pressing on" in the Christian walk, even when all is against us, we are pressing on to get to the gym. During this devotional time, I was able to let others (church family) know how this group is so much more, how relationships are being developed and we are encouraging each other not only physically but spiritually. Although I have to say, I was a little "caught in the headlights" when we were brought up in this devotional, I thank that person because I think God was using him to say, "be MORE!!"
As God was working on me, He was working on Jen too, who was away visiting family for two very longs weeks (we really missed her). It may have been the first day she was back with us, that she asked me as we were on the treadmills alone. "what do you think of us as a group doing an online Bible study together?" I was all for it, this is what God had for us to be MORE, and so when the others joined us we proposed it and it it was a unanimous "yes". 
This week we started the "Made to Crave" Bible study being offered through Proverbs 31 Ministries. Before this started though, we set 30 day goals that we can encourage and pray each other through. 
The reason I am writing all of this is to tell you how blessed I am that God put Jen and each one of these wonderful sisters in my life. You see with their help and encouragement, God is helping me to grow closer to Him and be used in the way He desires. These relationships are open, honest and transparent and I praise God for that too. We are growing daily, praying each other through the  circumstances we face. Through these ladies, God is showing me what His family is like and I am so grateful and blessed.
So, although getting up to be at the gym isn't always fun, I know when I get there my sisters are waiting for me and that right beside us is our Father God. 
As always, thanks for stopping by!



Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Cookies Anyone?

What do you do on a snowy day when the kids are home from school, besides stay in your pajamas all day? You bake cookies, lots and lots of cookies.
With Emily getting older and telling me so all the time, I want her to start participating regularly in domestic tasks around our home which will ultimately train her for her future home and family. When I told her we were going to bake cookies, but that I was only going to supervise and she was to do the  majority of the work, she was very excited. Now, I'm going to be completely honest and confess that all of the cookies were made with mixes from my good friend Betty Crocker. 
Matt, of course, did not want to be left out from the action and contributed in his own way. He did help pour in one of the ingredients needed for the first batch of cookies but found his "job" when we removed the mixer from its stand. Matt did clean up!
First cookies up, molasses. My personal favorites!
Next, peanut butter cookies with mini m&m's. Another yummy favorite!
Our final cookie was key lime with key lime frosting. We were trying to bring the taste of summer to this very cold, snowy, winter day.
One of the reasons I planned to bake cookies today is that I wanted to give some as a "thank you" to our neighbor. Last night, he came over around 10 p.m. and plowed our sidewalks and driveway.
This task became a good teaching lesson for Emily and Matt. You see I want them to learn that when someone does something for you, especially something unexpected and so very helpful that you can just say "thank you" but doing something as small as baking cookies makes the "thank you" even more special. 
Emily was very proud of the work she had done baking today and is already wondering when her next baking day will be. What made me even happier was that she was excited that the cookies were going to be given to our neighbor to say "thank you". Lesson learned.
As always, thanks for stopping by!

Little Things Do Mean A Lot!


I have no doubt that my husband loves me but I so love when he shows me just how much in the smallest, yet sweetest of gestures. 
Today in NJ we are dealing with the aftermath of another snow storm that lasted through the early morning hours. Last night we received the notification that the kids would be home from school. The storm and the day off school of course meant my "normal" daily schedule was out the window. Usually, after I finish my 5 a.m. workout at the gym, I stop for coffee at my local Dunkin Donuts. Well, no gym this morning meant no coffee. Dave was up early to do morning shoveling so that he could head to work. Thankfully his job is local so his commute is hampered only by the roads being clear and the amount of people braving the roads with him. 
After getting all paths to our home "snow free", I sent Dave off to work with a kiss, "love you" and a "see you later". After starting a load of laundry, I settled in on the couch to catch up on the current weather situation and news of the day. It was about 15 minutes after Dave left that I caught a glimpse out the window of someone walking on the sidewalk along the side of our house and up the stoop to our side door. When I took a better look, I noticed the person was Dave. I have to admit my first thought was "oh no, why is he back" "what is wrong" "did he have an accident".  I met him anxiously at the door. Saying "what's up" as he stood there holding a hot cup of pumpkin spice coffee from our local Wawa. He handed it to me and said "love you buddy". 
What can I say, he knows the way to my heart....coffee tends to be one of those ways. 
To make this story a little more sweet, I have to explain that the Wawa in normal weather is less than 5 minutes from our home and his work about 20 minutes. So, his trip to work was extended by his choice in bad road conditions by an extra 15+ minutes just to show me his love and put a smile on my face.
Yes, I know I am a very blessed girl! I have a man who loves me and shows me by doing the smallest things that mean so much! 
Oh and that cup of coffee was one of the best I've had!
As always, thanks for stopping by!

Matt, Do You Want to Build a Snowman?

On Tuesday, Matthew had a school math project due that involved a snowman.
The students were given a list of items that could be used to "build" their snowman. The math portion was that they were unable to go over $60 with their purchase of supplies. They also had to create an advertisement as to why someone would want to buy their snowman. Finally, they had to create a snowman on a 12 x 18 piece of paper which represented the one in their advertisement.
Now, you all know I'm the crafter but math, well I conceded all math issues to Dave after all he is an accountant. So, Dave and Matt worked on the calculations, completing the supply order and then the advertisement. Matt's pitch for buying his snowman is that it will do your homework for you. He also gave the snowman a name - Bells Jingle!
Monday the kids were off for MLK Jr's birthday so Matt and I took that day to make his snowman come to life. 
When the assignment was first given, we decided that he would make it using mini marshmallows. So, out came the marshmallows and hot glue. Matt traced 3 circles using two bowls and a coffee mug to make the snowman's body. Then we got busy! I dispensed the hot glue and he placed the marshmallows on the outline. A few times he did touch the glue but he quickly learned how to avoid doing that. We used about 3/4's of a bag of marshmallows (Matt was hoping to have some left over to eat).  He did a great job! We let the snowman set for a few hours just to make sure the marshmallows adhered to the glue and let them dry out a bit before "dressing" him.
Thankfully, I have quite a bit of left over felt in my craft supplies. The snowman's hat, scarf, gloves, eyes, mouth and nose were cut from felt and attached with hot glue. The sticks for the arms were from outside our home. We attached 3 buttons with hot glue and made the shovel from card stock (also on hand in my craft room). 
It was fun helping Matt create Bells Jingle. 
Oh, by the way, that many marshmallows actually weighed down the paper quite a bit. Matt transported it in a box the next day so he wouldn't drop it due to its weight. 
So, on Monday we did build a snowman! A marshmallow snowman!
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Monday, January 20, 2014

Yummy, Cheesy Lasagna Soup

Due to Emily's basketball practices and games, I haven't been that good about getting a full week's menu planned, shopped for and produced. So, I've resigned myself that until this basketball season is over I'm only committing to making one or two new recipes per week. 
This one I found at the website Our Table for Seven for Cheesy Lasagna Soup was a gem of a find. 
First, the ingredients are "normal" ingredients with the majority already being staples in most pantries. The only items I had to buy were the ground turkey and lasagna noodles. Secondly, this is such an easy recipe to make and doesn't take that long. I made it in two parts due to a basketball practice for Emily. Earlier in the afternoon, I prepared the soup base bringing it to a boil and then allowing it to simmer the recommended 15 minutes. When we got home from practice, I brought it back to a boil, adding the noodles and allowing it to cook until the noodles were softened. 
Finally, and most importantly the taste was amazing! The Parmesan cheese really thickened the broth so that you could actually eat it with a fork. Everyone gave it a big thumbs up and it is so tasty I would definitely make it as a meal for company. 
Two things I would change for the next time is to cut the Parmesan to 3/4 of a cup from one cup maybe even start with a half cup and determine if more is needed. Also, the mozzarella garnish although good was really not that necessary so I will eliminate it the next time.
This is definitely one you must try and please come back and tell me what you think.
As always, thanks for stopping by!