


Yes, Emily got her ears pierced. Last Friday, Emily came up to me at 4:45 a.m. and told me she had a dream that she had pierced ears and we need to get them done. Of course at that time in the morning, all I said was "okay, jump in bed and we'll talk about it later". So that morning, we talked and I told her if we get it done the next day (Saturday) we would be able to change them for Halloween (Emily is going to be spider girl so she bought spider earrings). All day long she told me and everyone at school that she was getting her ears pierced tomorrow, so I knew she was serious.
I think what helped is that the previous Saturday we had gone to the mall to the movies and went into Claire's after. There was a girl who was getting a secondary hole and was probably in her early 20's so I knew there wouldn't be any crying so I had Emily watch it being done. Emily said not today and I told her "no" when she is ready she can get it done. We looked at earrings as an enticement and I think it worked.
When we got to Claire's, Emily was nervous. She asked if the girl had something for her to hold (the other store had a teddy bear). Yes, I was smart enough to request that both ears be done at once. Emily had wanted pearl earrings but they didn't have any so she chose her birthstone. She also told them she wanted 2 holes (she remember that the girl she watched only got one piercing and Emily wanted one in each ear - too cute). The ladies marked the spots and shot their guns. Emily squeezed her eyes shut and it was over....no crying, no screaming, no telling me "you lied it hurt". She was in a little bit of disbelief at first joking around asking "where am I?" Then, she looked in the mirror and was ecstatic.
We spent the next 15 minutes choosing earrings for future wear and an earring holder.
Emily was so proud of her earrings she showed them to everyone at church the next day and at school on Monday.
They are healing very nicely. Emily always reminds me, "mom we have to do my earrings". Clearly she was just ready for it to happen but I do have to say I now know why people get their girls ears pierced when they are babies. Another sign of Emily growing up.